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Heaven Gained A Hero

April 2, 2013 — 8 Comments

Heaven is a much funnier place today.

My grandpa, Edwin Haack, age 93, passed away this morning surrounded by his loving family; one that knows how to love because he showed them how to do it well.

I’m using this space to share three things today: A little bit about who my grandpa was, a couple of my favorite memories and the experience of having him pass through hospice.  It might be a little raw, so thank you for your understanding.

Grandpa was born in November of 1919, one five children; three boys and two girls.  He grew-up in the Madison area and even attended Madison East High School.  On New Year’s Day in 1942 he married my grandma, June, and they’d go on to have ten children.  TEN.  My daughter Anna’s middle name is June, after my grandmother, actually.  Shortly after they were married, grandpa 522428_10152689632555603_569833583_nwas drafted by the United States Army and ended-up serving nearly for four years with extensive time spent in New Guinea and the Philippines during WWII.  He was promoted to Staff Sargent status within the 32nd Infantry Division, 127th Regiment.  The 32nd Infantry Division, the Red Arrow Division, was credited with many “firsts” and logged a total of 654 days of combat during World War II, more than any other United States Army division.  While in Leyte (Philippines), grandpa suffered a serious wound to his right leg and was awarded the Purple Heart (more on this later).  When he got back home, he finally met his first child, Bonnie.  She was nearly three when he met her for the first time.

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The Man, The Myth, The Legend

The Man, The Myth, The Legend

Mister Rogers is my hero.

Not was, but is.

And I wish you could get inside my brain to understand how serious I am.  Every time I immerse myself in Mister Rogers related material – books, quotes, videos, documentaries – I cry.  I cry when I listen to him talk slowly and carefully, telling me that he likes me.  I cry when he accepts awards by asking everyone to take time and think of those they’re thankful for.  I cry when I watch him speak to the US Senate on behalf of millions of children and, in the process, change the mind of a gruff senator through kindness and humility.  I cry when I read about the countless lives he touched while here on Earth.

Fred McFeely Rogers would have been 85 years old today.

In honor of his birth and life, I’d like to share a few things I love about Mister Rogers, the man.

First of all, and this isn’t one of the three things, but…Fred Rogers represents the term “hero” well.  Heroes scare me, actually.  In this day and age, it seems we just wait for them to fall and, more often than we’d like, they do.  The more we find out about Fred Rogers, though, the more his legacy seems to be strengthened.  In fact, I’m convinced that instead of saying, “See, told ya!” when an icon fell, Fred would be consumed with telling them he cares about them and he’d try to help them.  He’d want to know what led them here.  He’d want to know their story.  Which is the first thing I love about him…

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Today is my son’s birthday.  He makes me so proud.  He’s smart and funny and kind and sensitive.  He’s a good friend.  He’s an amazing young man.

My Sam

My Sam

This is something I wrote some years ago about Sam’s birthday.  I thought about editing it and I probably will at some point…but, not this year.

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The Day Haiti Shook

January 12, 2013 — Leave a comment

Today is the anniversary of the ‘quake that shook Haiti. Many of you might not know that I was in Haiti back then and left the country the evening before it hit. This is a piece I wrote in 2012 (slightly edited) that gives you an idea of how the events unfolded and affected me. I have friends in Haiti today (on a mission trip) and am thinking about them. And I miss my buddy, Jameley. A lot.

It’s the anniversary of the earthquake in Haiti.

Today I’m remembering that day in 2010.  I’m remembering how it affected me personally and how it devastated a group of people I love.

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Hey, everybody!

Christmas is right around the corner and I’ve got the perfect gift idea.

Different Is Awesome!” gear!

Here are some pictures that my wonderful friend Jessica (of More Than Just Pictures) took of said idea:

Dang, those shirts look good!

Dang, those shirts look good!

More pictures, info and a CONTEST after the jump!

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Happy Thanksgiving!

November 22, 2012 — 3 Comments

Happy Thanksgiving, everyone!

The past year has been one of the most eventful of my entire life.  And that’s no exaggeration.

In fact, a year ago today Living One-Handed didn’t yet exist!  The blog went live in December (with this first post about my pants) and it has become one of the best parts of my life.  I’m so thankful for the opportunities I’ve had to meet and help people all over the world who are affected by limb-differences.  I’m thankful for everyone who has shared their story and perspective with me, which has given me a clearer understanding of how limb-difference affects all types of people.  I’m most thankful to have met such amazing leaders in the limb-different community, like Molly, Jen, Tony, Meg, Eric and Sam…and so many others.  You all inspire me beyond what I can say with words.

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Best picture ever. Sam (MySpecialHand), Me, Molly and Ryan (LuckyFinProject), Tony and Lesleigh Memmel

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This is what happens when you ask an NFL player, like Josh Sitton, an excellent question on Twitter:

#GOPACKGO

And if you’re not following ME on Twitter yet, you totally should: @LivingOneHanded

Despite my wife’s protestations, I think Twitter is awesome.

And today was a good Twitter day, though it could have been so much better.

See, I was listening to Jim Rome (sports talkshow host) at lunch like I usually do and was moved to tweet about an interview he did.  He interviewed Tyler Hamilton, a cyclist who won a gold medal and then subsequently lost it when he got busted for using performance enhancing drugs.  He wrote a book, so of course he’s doing media to promote it, but I thought he sounded like a guy who was at peace.  A guy who wasn’t hiding anything anymore.  A lot of listeners were upset that he is “making money off of being a cheater.”  I don’t view it that way.  I view it as a guy who for years did things the wrong way.  A guy who had to be forced into telling the truth (he was subpoenaed), but once he did, was freed.  He told about how, once he started telling the truth he couldn’t stop.  He testified for seven hours.  That’s a lot of truth-telling.  Asked if he thinks Lance Armstrong will confess someday, he said yes confidently.  “Nobody can handle keeping that many secrets for their whole life,” he said (something to that effect).

So, I tweeted the following tweet, which Jim re-tweeted:

I got the notification on my phone and was stoked.  I mean, it doesn’t really mean anything, but it’s pretty cool that he noticed mine out of the hundreds I’m sure he gets during a show.  Plus, he has nearly a million followers, so…that’s cool.

“But Ryan, you said it could have been so much better?  What gives?” you ask.

Well, I accidentally used my personal account rather than @LivingOneHanded!  That would have been so rad!  What a dum dum.

Ah well, there’s always next time, right?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y7aMgrA952Y

(This is the last in a series of posts recounting my experience at Story Chicago. Read Part I here, Part II here and Part III here, Part IV here, Part V here.)

I hope you’ve enjoyed this week-long Story recap as much as I have writing it!

Ok, I know that’s a lot to ask.  But, thank you for indulging me.

In this final post I thought I’d share a few of the odds and ends that didn’t make it into the other posts, but still made an impact on me.  Like, one of things that was so fun about Story was meeting/seeing online friends in-person.  My friend Sonny, who I first met in Nashville at Donald Miller’s Storyline conference, greeted me with a big hug when I saw him.  He loves hugs.  I love hugs.  We work well together.  I also got to meet Tony and Katie Alicea.  Two amazing people with hearts as big and as beautiful as their smiles.

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